"Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer grows you."
One of you has to be the water element while the other one is fire, the other person has to be cool while the other one is hot.
Relationships aren’t supposed to be about revenge. Don’t get mad at me when I get mad at you. Don’t ignore me for an extra day because I ignored you for a day. It’s supposed to be about unconditional love. Love me when I’m pissed off. Love me when I mess up. Love me when I least deserve it and love me when I most deserve it. If you’re willing to do that for me and give me unconditional love, then this love is worth staying for. You can’t fight fire with fire and ask why there are so many problems among us? One of you has to be the water element while the other one is fire, the other person has to be cool while the other one is hot. Being in a relationship is about the connection. Try to sense if your partner is having emotional trouble, if they do then find ways to focus on making them feel better instead of focusing on arguing more, hoping by winning the argument.. you will satisfy your emotions. Ask yourself, what if you did win the argument? You’re slowly losing your partner which is never worth fighting against. Think about it.
Anonymous said: Do you have any youtube videos?
Not recently, I need to make more! I’m losing my fans :(
"Once you lose someone it is never exactly the same person who comes back."
-Sharon Olds, Satan Says (via larmoyante)
"6 keys to a relationship: friendship, freedom, honesty, trust, understanding and communication."