"Dressing up is like masturbation, I do it for myself and if it turns you on, that’s fine, but this is for me and you’re not invited."
It’s human nature to crave for the things that we can’t have. The more efforts we put into it, the more we want it. We get blind to the point where all we think about is that particular things, we fight and find ways to get it.
But the real question is, what are you fighting for? Will it truly bring us happiness? What you want and what makes you happy are two different things. Sometimes the things that we want, happiness isn’t included.
"I began sleeping an incredible number of hours. It wasn’t proper sleep, but a state of semi-consciousness in which daydreams and reality were nearly indistinguishable."
Anonymous said: why is that when a guy finds a good girl that he considers wife material, he leaves her because of his own insecurities and tries to blame her for her faults and then tries to find someone else right away like nothing happened?
That person doesn’t love the girl, it’s an excuse to get rid of her.
Anonymous said: do you believe that if a guy really loves you, he'll stick around even if he can't help support you? or do you believe that he'll let a woman go because he knows he can't support her and he knows she can find better?
If he loves you, he will strive to work harder to help you. The guy who you just mentioned is just weak and his way of thinking isn’t correct. Do you really love the person if you allow another person to be by her side? What if he doesn’t treat her right? Why can’t you man up, and find ways to support her? Even find an extra job? Why are you allowing another man to stand in your spot, because you fear that you’re not good enough?
Anonymous said: Aw, you're such a sweet guy :3 I love what you wrote about the definition of a boyfriend<3
thank you :)
Being a boyfriend is more than just sending your girl “I love you and I miss you” texts, buying her material things, or calling your girl babe, baby, honey or whatever endearments you wanna call her. It’s something deeper than that. Being romantic is a part and by doing all those stuffs is a must. But I guess those things is just the side which is visible to everyone.
You are the man, so hold her hand even in front of her parents, her friends, your friends as an expression of “you are mine, and I am proud to be yours.” Love her with your heart, caress her with your skin, allow her sexually cravings to come first before yours, and most importantly: GIVE. I am not talking about giving materials or money because anybody can do that. Give her something that’s more valuable; give her your time by losing sleep, because you’re too busy helping her find ways to make her life better, give her your health, give her your efforts, give her space, give her respect, give her a feeling of security to let her feel that as long as she’s with you, she will be safe. Put her needs first: even if you only have $20 dollars left in your pocket, still give. Remember, it’s not the money that’s important, it’s what you have yet, still give it your all, that’s all that matters.
I think that is the true definition of being a boyfriend.