"Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows."

-Unknown (via tchitsnathan)

(Source: onlinecounsellingcollege)

"And then she told herself, “Stop being so weak. Grow up and get over it.” and then she never felt anything again."

-(via xxzii)

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"I don’t want to get attached to anyone anymore, it only destroys me in the end"

-Unknown (via stevenbong)

(Source: be-yours-4ever)

"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That’s the message he is sending."

-Thich Nhat Hanh (via perfect)

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If you don’t laugh during sex at least once, you’re having sex with the wrong person. 

(Source: relievingatlas)

There’s a difference between wanting what you can’t have and love. One of the biggest misconception between the two is by putting in so much efforts, doing everything that you can to convince the person to stay, lying to yourself that they are the one, you want them, you need them, there is no one out there that exist just like them. so is it really love that you’re feeling or is it human’s nature to crave for something that you can see but can’t touch? If it’s really love, you don’t have to try so hard, moderate efforts to show that you care while leaving the door open, Love should make you fill with joy and happiness not desperate, attached, clingy, and all the negativity that fools you that you’re in love. And if they really loves you, you can do everything or nothing.. They would still stay

"Be committed, not attached. But more importantly, know the difference."

-Kai, Lessons in Life #21 (via siberiana)

(Source: theloverboi)


see the thing is
i know you still hold her in your heart
even if you’ve turned off the lights
in the corners where she’s crying your name

see the thing is
these sheets still smell of her perfume even though
you’ve washed them with my body. it turns out
my skin, my sweat, my heat
were not steel wool and could not scrub her
from where your mattress remembers her silhouette
maybe because you draw her picture
in your sleep it’s kind of funny
because i can hear your dreams
talking about her

see the thing is
in class one day when the teacher was absent
we all took a personality test and she was told
she was a hurricane, strong winds, warm rain
the kind of girl who comes in and sweeps everything
into a mess but everyone thinks she’s
powerful and beautiful and calm at the center
whereas i was told i was a blizzard
nothing special just a coldness that leaves this world
a little more filled with ice

see the thing is i just never learned how to move my hips
in that swaying dip hers have and i never learned
real control so i will be halfway through a cake
while she says “no thanks, i’m full” and my grades
aren’t perfect like hers and basically i’m sick
of finding her taste still stinging your lips
because you pretend that you love me but
we both know
i’m just the placeholder for the girl that
still walks across your mind

because good god do i love you but
i’m just here to fill up the space
that she left behind.


-Jealousy. /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)


I’m moody as fuck so if you want a relationship/friendship with me understand that there will be days that I will not care for your presence even though you did nothing wrong followed by days where you’ll be the only person that I want to talk to despite having nothing to say.

"Perhaps men of genius are the only true men. In all the history of the race there have been only a few thousand real men. And the rest of us—what are we? Teachable animals. Without the help of the real man, we should have found out almost nothing at all. Almost all the ideas with which we are familiar could never have occurred to minds like ours. Plant the seeds there and they will grow; but our minds could never spontaneously have generated them"

-Aldous Huxley (via growthofthesoil)

I can relate to this